It all began with a 1am post on a mum’s Facebook page. I was up trying to settle my 11 week old and the words started to flow. I’d been at a mother’s group meeting and couldn’t stop thinking about those new mums with the deer in the headlights look in their eyes. I guess I felt I wanted them and any mum who read my post, to know that really, we are all just flying by the seat of our pants. It’s all a guessing game. And some of us are just better at hiding it than others.